The Twelve Step Manifestation Process
By Robert Najemy
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A word about “soul decisions”
Some people wonder, “what if I am not supposed to have that,” or “what if God or my higher self does not want me to have that. What if I have a ‘karmic obstruction’ towards the manifestation of that goal?” Or they may think, “isn’t it better just to let God decide what I should have? Maybe I shouldn’t really ask for anything?”
We are divine beings who have projected our consciousness into these temporary bodies and minds. We are actually divine and worthy of all the good of this world. We are in fact creating our reality in cooperation with the Divine and our fellow beings. We are here to learn to create ever more positive realities that simulate the harmony, abundance and love, which characterize our true selves.
There is absolutely no reason why we do not deserve a wonderful and abundant reality. There is also no reason why “God” might not want us to have all that we desire. Christ spoke about this when he said, “What Father would give stones to his children who are asking for food.” And, “why bother about tomorrow when God will give you everything you need as long as you live according to his laws.” (The laws of love and unity.)
The only obstacles towards our manifesting something that we desire as personalities, are those we as souls may have chosen before our birth and even during our lives. As souls we may have chosen to learn certain inner lessons by not being able to satisfy some needs externally. If in fact as souls we have made such a decision, we may actually internally obstruct the manifestation of a goal until we can learn to feel security, self-worth, freedom, happiness and love for others and ourselves without that which we believe we must have. In other words we need to let go of our attachment to and dependence on what we are seeking to create before we can create it.
I know that this is confusing, because we have already mentioned that experiencing positive feelings about what we seek to manifest is essential to attracting it. This is true. But if we are also experiencing fear that we will not be able to create what we want or fear that we cannot be well until we do, this is a self-canceling energy that may obstruct what we want to manifest. This would be the case if we have made a soul decision to overcome the illusion that our self-worth, security or happiness are actually dependent on whether or not we get what we want. When we are attached in this way, we experience a wide variety of negative emotions such as:
1. Fear that we will not be able to get what we want.
2. Fear that even if we have it, we might lose it or someone might steal or take it from us.
3. Failure, self-rejection, shame and helplessness if we do not create it.
4. Jealousy and envy towards those who have what we want
5. Anger and hate towards those we consider to be the cause of our not getting what we want.
We need to understand that above and beyond all that we seek to create, our ultimate life purpose is to realize our own inner self-worth, security, peace, freedom, happiness and fulfillment. What can we possibly gain by having all that we want materially, if that only increases the illusion that we cannot be well without all that and we never have a chance to experience our true spiritual greatness? All of these external objects and situations will then only serve to increase our ignorance.
Thus, as strange as it might seem, we can manifest much more easily what we would love to enjoy when we also know that we can be worthy, safe and happy without it. For example, if you have chosen to learn to experience your own self-worth without external affirmation, acceptance or love, then you may have set up “spiritual agreements” with those souls, who are playing the roles of your family or other close ones, to withhold such affirmation until you learn this lesson so that you can realize your own self-worth and be free from the need for external verification.
Those who have made such a “soul decision” will have placed an obstacle to receiving external affirmation until they no longer need it in order to love themselves and others and live happy and creative lives. Once this lesson has been learned, the obstruction can be removed – especially with Ho’oponopono, and we can receive unlimited love, affirmation and even admiration, because we are not dependent on it any more and it no longer is an obstacle to our evolutionary process.
Some may have established a similar obstruction concerning money or material abundance or perhaps concerning support from others. Our soul decision (not God’s will for us – but our own will for us) may be to live without money until we can feel secure, peaceful, worthy and happy without it. Once we have learned that the obstacle is removed.
The solution then is to upgrade all attachments and addictions that are characterized by fear of not getting or of losing what we need, to preferences. A preference is something we want and give our energy to creating, but also know that we are and can be well without it. We choose to be with someone because we love and enjoy them, not because we have the illusion that we cannot feel worthy, secure or happy without them. This is an illusion. How can the other 6 billion souls on this earth be fine without this person we believe we cannot be well without?
Not all souls have made such soul decisions and thus may not have inner resistance to manifesting what they want. Some say that such soul contracts can also be removed by asking that they be. But the most effective means for moving past them is to learn the lessons that we set them there to learn from. Thus we need to experience our own inner power, security, self-worth, happiness and fulfillment while we simultaneously visualize our preferred reality and experience all of the positive emotions we have now that it has become our new reality.
In this way, we have many positive emotions about our new reality without any of the fears that are created by attachment, which is a negation of what we truly are.
The techniques of energy psychology are very effective for letting go of the fears created by attachment, as are Ho’oponopono, meditation and the study of and employment of spiritual truths.
Adapted from the forthcoming book “Dealing With Testing Times” by Robert Elias Najemy
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